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Millennials, for one reason or another, have now made it so slightly more than half of their generation is single.
A study conducted by the dating app, Tinder found that the majority of millennials (especially females) expressed victorious feelings of empowerment and independence when asked as to why they have forgone romantic relationships. Currently in vogue, is the view that they are nothing more than the proverbial ball and chain instituted by society to tie them down, make them give up all of their personal enjoyments, and then position them to be beaten into a submissive pulp.
They have taken, according to this study, the view that relationships are meant for the weak and only those who dishonestly try and gain value in themselves by approval from others.
Lexicographers must be in severe pain over all of this since here erroneously haughty philosophically pompous millennials have hijacked the true meanings of the words independence and dependence and have bent them to their subjectivist whims.
Within this, it is my belief, that the destruction of relationships and other social interactions narrow down to primarily one common ideological root. Feminism.
Surprise. Surprise.
The naive researchers inadvertently helped find the decades old misandrist anti-nuclear family feminist underpinnings of millennials’ anti and apathetic romance beliefs. Embarrassingly, they couldn’t connect the dots despite coming from today’s academic institutions that routinely teach this.
Let’s take a look at what no one is paying attention to.
What is independence?
Before I eviscerate feminism for the umpteenth time, we first need to define and concretize what is meant by the terms at hand and what makes them possible.
The opposing millennial feminist definition cannot hold a drop of water for a millisecond when confronted with, not only this philosophically-determined reality, but also when confronted with scientific reality.
Feminist millennials have mistaken the definition of independence for primitive and brutish rogue isolationism.
Independence, in the purest sense of the term, is the ability to make judgments and choices based upon the use of your own mind. It is the opposite of being a conformist. It involves thinking and not the subordination to dogma where others stipulate the unquestionable edicts you are to follow. Independence is essentially the responsibility to think because no one else can do that for you.
As long as you have the option to walk away, produce, disagree, agree, or stand on your own terms you are independent.
The laws of logic, as well as millions of years of evolution, dictate that we are social creatures. We cannot outrun this and must obey this fact. To put it in shorthand; A is A. Relationships are ingrained in who we are as a species. After all, our primary mechanism is the ability to connect and reproduce (i.e., nature’s synonym for intimacy). The feminist concept of running society as a sexually-maladjusted misandrist version of Mad Max – a desolate wasteland of perpetually male-phobic female rogue drifters – is incredibly contrary to reality and therefore ultimately destructive.
Further disrupting that nonsense, reality also dictates we need communication – the ability to convey ideas – in order to trade materialistically and spiritually with one another. We utilize this in order to capitalize upon knowledge in order to pursue our happiness.
It is only through the utilization of independence, and the absolute use of reason, we are capable of defining values for us to pursue and only through our values are we able to define who we are and what we wish to obtain. Through that pursuit, only then can a relationship be achieved.
Relationships are the result of independence – not the other way around.
Relationships are slavery and slathered with dependency.
This may be the biggest 1984-spin on the definitions of the words relationship and dependency. Unfortunately, feminist millennials have taken the bait and are now having the switch unknowingly shoved up their asses.
One of the many snake-oil salesman – SORRY! – saleswoman techniques of feminism is to render relationships – only with men of course – as dependency.
A relationship with a man is currently painted as a straw hat-wearing plantation owner dragging a mutilated half-naked woman to his slave quarters.
But, relationships aren’t about forms of grotesque S&M dependency. A relationship is one of the most independent self-beneficial things a human being could ever GAIN.
Since we can only independently form values, we therefore can only value others who have done so for themselves. A relationship is effectively entering a union on your own terms with someone you value as an independent human being. If you pay attention to the concept of relationship you’d realize, by nature, that it involves trading value for value for mutual benefit. The master-slave dependency dynamic isn’t a true relationship since only one side profits.
Feminists lie and tell women they shouldn’t be dependent on a relationship with a man to gain self-esteem when the reverse is the truth. A functioning relationship is only possible if you have self-esteem beforehand.
Even if they honestly adhere to that idea, they will never give credence or acknowledgment to that fact. Instead, they’ll always render them fallaciously as being a means for shallow and scared women to seek male approval. Otherwise, if not lied to, women would most likely pursue them.
In a way though, they are correct in saying that you shouldn’t seek self-validation from others but why is that exclusive to women? The same can apply to men as well. It’s a universal life lesson.
Intersectional Feminism.
To make matters worse, intersectional feminism (the idea that different social forces like skin color and sex organ play a role in privilege, domination, and enslavement) tells women that men, by virtue of birth, are always dishonestly on the highest rung of the societal pecking order. Any interaction or relationship with a man will always have him at the top constantly looking down upon them. They’re told men are nothing about power whether they want to be or not. Paranoia for the win.
It’s bad enough they think romance is slavery but now whenever a woman has sex with a man it’s only so many steps away from a Sunday afternoon’s patriarchal gang rape and stoning all due to “power imbalances”.
Of course, intersectional feminism evades reality on every single possible fundamental level including even history.
Women have never had more sexual freedom in the west in human history. They can choose every aspect of what they want from intimacy at every level. Just the fact that the phrase, “hookup culture” (the sexual revolution-inspired trend to have exclusively sex-based relationships) exists in the mainstream, usually in an agnostic context, proves that.
Feminists today, when analyzing women, look at them through the eyes of a lobotomized witch doctor. It’s probably not unusual for them to say things like, “Yes. Women by law in the west are forced to be with men”, without even blinking. If you seriously manage to listen all the way through a contemporary feminist’s assessment of western women in 2019, you’d swear we’re living in 1019.
Naturally, males always get the shit end of the sexual selection stick. If it isn’t dying out because a female didn’t pick you to reproduce with, it’s the #MeToo movement telling women men have NO idea what sex crimes are and that they can unknowingly commit rape like bumbling unaware soldiers of the Imperialist Japanese Empire. To top it off, don’t explain things to them (mansplaining), don’t hold doors open for them (Benevolent Sexism), and don’t sexually harass them (“Hey, beautiful.”).
Men can’t even turn to porn as a natural sexual outlet because that contributes to rape culture. No wonder why millennial men who want to date are depressed.
Hypocrisy.
Behind all of this “trailblazing” millennial feminist Instagram meme wisdom, is the crux of their ideology – collectivism. Collectivism is a form of dependence and conformity where you are to sacrifice your life to the tribe and its prescribed leaders.
Feminism tells women that without this ideology they will be nothing more than lost sheep who, at any moment, can be lead into temptation and snatched up by the ever-looming patriarchy. The only path to salvation is to therefore turn themselves over to the divine feminist leaders. Gloria Steinem is my shepherd. There is nothing I shall want.
Does this sound like independence? Is being faithfully dependent upon dogma centered around conformity empowerment?
The holes in this argument are bigger than the cannonball holes in the Star-Spangled Banner. I thought they wanted independence for women.
Collectivist ideologies always resent the individual – the non-conformist. Since values can only be held and pursued individually, of course romantic relationships (only the ones with men) will be demonized. They rock the boat more than an Indonesian tsunami. Romantic relationships are rich in personal independent gain and goal obtainment. It separates the haves from the have-nots. Collectivists are second-handers. They are programmed to be maniacally jealous of those who bask in their own achievements and demonize them to the core of their humanity.
This is, of course, alluding to the decades old stereotype of fat ugly sexually-depraved feminists who roast in jealously at young exuberant well-groomed immaculately feminine divine women that get all the guys.
Adding to all the collectivist ideological benchmarks of feminism, is the fact that the entire ideology revolves around sex. Who breaks up the conformity of that? The opposite sex of course. Not only is it intellectually collectivism but it’s also superficially collectivism. What’s next? Will they all wear uniformed pink caps?
This has nothing to do with independence but everything to do with misandry and a preemptive attack to divide men and women for good. Do feminists ever rail against lesbian relationships? No. Lesbian relationships in the west are always rendered as Medal of Honor-worthy statements of power and independence despite the fact that no one is impressed nor cares.
Millennials.
So where do both ideologically non-feminist male and female – SORRY! – female and male non-feminist millennials fit into this mess? Limbo – a limbo most likely inspired by feminism.
The limbo they’ve been raised in executes firm principled convictions. Take a look at their, now close to, non-existent sex lives. Hookups and faceless one time partners are still prevalent since a lot of surveys find that just because someone is single doesn’t mean they’re not having sex.
What exactly do these range-of-the-moment impulsive and primal encounters reveal? They reveal that they are out to execute the entire family of commitment and its relatives value, integrity, and principle. Can you imagine when this anti-commitment movement fully takes over? No one will even be committed to finishing a sentence let alone maintaining a sexual position.
Suppressed Victorian-era men and women, under the tyrannical anti-sex and masturbation Church of England, had more meaningful sex than millennials. Think about that without suffering a massive stroke.
Despite any coherent analysis of their irrationality, millennials and the naive dating researchers who validate their raw emotions, seriously believe that they feel great about their choices of Franciscan monk celibacy yet reality is giving them the biggest middle finger history has ever seen.
Millennials are riddled with mental illnesses to the point of killing themselves and overdosing on drugs in such high numbers that young people now have the highest risk of fatality since the 1918 Spanish Flu epidemic. The happiness for women has ironically been on a steady decline since the early 70s. Are those the signs of a generation that feels great? It all goes to show that millennials would rather feel than think about what they’re saying.
Millennial feminist women.
We live in a society where pompous and arrogant feminist millennial women perpetually tell millennial men they’re not needed and that they should shut up and step aside in order to let women take charge, not because of merit, but because of vagina.
Nice. Have your competitor step aside and shut up so you can go unchallenged and dishonestly win. That’s empowering.
Of course, they don’t mean what they say since now they’re complaining there are no real (i.e., affluent) men to marry. Even if they convince themselves to marry, they have to date down (hypogamy) and spend their life explaining away how a sophisticated female lawyer could marry a grungy male plumber.
Let me get this straight.
They tell men to step aside, shut up, go away, insult them with hashtags like #MenARETrash, say their pets are more important than them, and then say they want to marry them?
You dug your own grave and now you have to lay in it.
Women need men and men need women. There’s a reason why there’s more than one group of the same species.
No matter how much a feminist on Instagram posts egotistically arrogant nonsense like, “She wasn’t looking for a knight. She was looking for a sword”, she’ll be the first woman to call the knights in blue when 10 men, all brandishing ropes and razorblades, barge into her apartment at 3am declaring, “The night is young and we’re here to have a good time!”.
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Is sex really hated?
Regardless of Tinder’s findings, dating apps are still a profitable business, Instagram models make careers off of showing the cleavage genetics and/or a Beverly Hills plastic surgeon, has endowed them with, porn websites are legitimate competition for Netflix, and sexting (sending nude photos and sexually-arousing texts) is still a thing.
Millennials, your double-speak is like nails on a chalkboard for logic.
What’s the point of this though? Am I implying that everyone everywhere should be in a relationship and perpetually plan to get married? No. My fundamental problem is that something that can be good for society is becoming obsolete for the all the wrong reasons. If you want to get rid of relationships at least do it without irrational fear mongering, evading nature, poorly constructing intersectional conspiracy theories, and displays of arrogant blowhard feelings of empowerment.
You’d still be wrong for doing so, though.